Be honest. Many of us lie about our ages on online hookup sites.
I know guys who have been 35 for almost a decade. And men who I know are pushing 60 have the nerve to say they are 49.
Part of the reason is the gay world is obsessed with youth. Some folks really believe you are over the hill at 35.
That is until they get to be 35 themselves and realize it really isn’t that old at all.
My partner “Van” thinks this is silly. Why front? Be honest, he says.
Yet another buddy of mine who is in his mid 50s also puts up his real age and said he has no shortage of folks hitting his sexy chocolate ass up, including alot of 20-somethings who want that Daddy experience.
So yesterday I updated my Adam4Adam profile.
I keep in good shape and try to exercise and eat well. I enjoy life. Im virile. I’m happy and in a good relationship.
So I changed my age from 45 to 51, which is what I really am. And I took a nice new pic.
And I said I was in a relationship but we play.
And I clicked the button and waited. Nervous as hell that my sex appeal has evaporated like water in a tea kettle left on the burner too long because I’m over the big 5-0.
But guess what? My inbox has blown up. Folks are hitting me up right and left. Of all ages.
“Can I get with you and your boi?”
“Is your partner as sexy as you?”
“Hot pics Daddy.”
Wow. Honesty really is the best policy!