Immanuel’s Ins and Outs List 2016

Happy New Year readers! Thanks for following me over the past year. Really appreciate your reads and comments. Here’s my list of what will be in and out in 2016!

OUT: Meeting men in gay clubs


IN: Meeting men at gay book clubs.

book club

OUT: Hookups


IN: Dating

gay club

OUT: Twinks


IN: Otters


OUT: Seducing Straight Menseducing1

IN: Seducing Straight Couples


OUT: Marriage between two men


IN: Triad Marriages


OUT: Boxer Shorts


IN: Going Commando


OUT: Beards


IN: Moustaches


OUT: Throwing Shade


IN: Throwing Love and Positivity


OUT: Indoor Missionary Sex


IN: Outdoor Cowgirl Sex


OUT: Folsom Street Fair


IN: Southern Decadence


OUT: Muscles


IN: Intelligence


OUT: Bitch Better Have My Money


IN: Hotline Bling


OUT: Dr. Heathcliff Huxtable


IN: James Evans


OUT: Empire


IN: Power


OUT: Colin Kaepernick


IN: Odell Beckham


OUT: RuPaul


IN: Rayceen Pendarvis


OUT: Idris Elba


IN: Idris Elba


Q: Readers, what are your ins and outs for 2016?

16 thoughts on “Immanuel’s Ins and Outs List 2016

  1. Immanuel, you a nasty fuck phreak, & that’s y I fucks with you! Talking ’bout out with seducing str8 men, but in with seducing str8 couples πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜€πŸ˜„πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜…
    I hear ya though, cause some of my fag hags still feening for dick when they KNOW my story & have a man. What da Beck’s an ‘otter’?

    IN: eating the booty/puum puum like groceries.

    OUT: not eating any sex organ. Like, REALLY guys? #Chowdownbitches πŸ΄πŸ΄πŸ΄πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

    • I talked with several buddies who have been in threesome with a woman and her man. Usually the woman knows the man has bisexual tendencies and wants to please him. I was asked to participate in one but the couple’s children attended the same high school as my kids. I thought that was too close for comfort. But I regret not doing it. They were both sexy as hell. An otter is a gay man who is not skinny but not heavy like a bear. Kinda in the middle. Oh and your in and out suggestion – priceless!

  2. Wow. Interesting list. I like james evans being (in)the most. I remember watching the sitcom “good times” and I enjoyed looking at his bulge in those tight lite brown couderoy pants he use to wear. To me he epitomize a real man .. Never been a Bill Crosby fan because I think he use to be too hard on young black men for being themselves and doing what is comfortable for them. My heart still goes out to him now for what he’s going through….. Odell Beckham, I think he might be the first nfl superstar to come out as gay. I never been a fan of men who goes to a hairdresser to get their hair dyed and curled. Plus recently he went on a temper-tandum during a nfl game and acted like a little female bitch. Lol….. Intelligent guys are a real turn on for me. I love to talk and when I’m with someone I enjoy good conversation before and after sex….. Throwing shade, I hate that Nene leakes lady and those sassy in your face type people that get off on hurting people’s feelings……..I personally go commando all summer. Feels so comfortable not wearing underwear…and lastly to me idris doesn’t look clean. I saw him in a movie with Gabriel union and he looked like he might skip showers from time to time and on the same note I think if a black want to wear facial hair then he can should keep it trim and neat all the time. The gray in it looks sexy and distinguished brothers but keep in tight my men………….

  3. Immanuel, no you did not just come for beards. I LOVE beards. Anytime I see one I have to stop and stare.

    I’m in for going commando.

    I think I might also be into polyamory. I don’t think I’d be okay with an open relationship but I would be open to having a romantic relationship with more than one person.

    • I like beards too! But like all fashions they get tired when everybody has them. Fashions,also tend to go to an extreme and then swing back the other way. So it’s time for a new facial hair look. I mentioned polyamory because a buddy was asked to be in one and I’m reading more about them. And my dick is too big to go commando unless I’m wearing my baggy camouflage pants.

      • Feel you on the whole fashion-zombie vibe. When everyone started rocking Ayatollah facial hair, I developed a permanent side-eye. Real fashion is to be true to yourself and stand out individually. As grandmamma used to say, “If everyone jumped off a cliff….” I think part of the whole Mullah-Face trend is that younger men have been so emasculated politically, socially and economically in America the grandpa beard was a cheap and easy means to reaassert some form of masculinity.

        I still think a trimmed, shaped beard is nice on a brutha, aka Drake style. And since I’m comfortable in my age and skin as a black man, I’m actually finding myself more attracted to men our age rocking some salt and pepper…”seasoned” men lol

        Here’s wishing you and Van a beautiful 2016 and continued blogging success. My company is transferring me to your neck of the woods this summer so I have to see if the Mid-Atlantic is all that.

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