I’m on vacation and yesterday “Van” and I went to lunch with friends on Baltimore’ Federal Hill.
During the meal I mentioned the story I had heard of a bottom who went to a sex party in the city, got some outrageously good dick from a handsome top, and clung to him half the night.
When the top decided to fuck another bottom the first bottom got angry and wanted to fight the new guy. The fracas broke up the party, which was in a hotel room, and I think hosts had to ask the dick-struck bottom to leave.
One of our buddies “Conrad,” who is a strict bottom, said he could relate. It seems for many bottoms getting good dick is hard to find and when you find it they want to hold on to it, he said.
Complicating matters is that there is a double standard in the gay world that mirrors a similar one in the heterosexual one.
A top can fuck as many men as he wants but bottoms who snag alot of dick get a reputation for being loose hoes and used up, Conrad said.
And forget about trying to forge a relationship, which is already difficult in the gay world.
Conrad told the story of a handsome guy he hooked up with who had an 11- or 12-inch dick.
The sex was good and Conrad later texted the guy saying he just wanted to hang out. He really liked the guy’s personality.
He got a chilly response. “I only hang out weekends at the bars or clubs,” the top said.
Conrad later learned the guy gets so many hits from bottoms craving his big dick he just hits and leaves them and has no interest in developing anything deeper.
For this top the world is his oyster. Bottoms can’t even get a fish stick.
“Well I’m verse. Why don’t you try doing that more to get more play,” Van suggested.
Conrad just looked at Van funny. “I’m a total bottom. I like what I like.”