Florida Swinging: Couples

One of nicest things about hanging out at Haulover Beach today was seeing other couples.

In fact Van and I met another couple from Maryland who we hung out with all day and plan to see when we get home.

Seeing all these gay  relationships really stirred my heart. I had to take pics:



This is a couple we talked to who had been together five years.


Florida Swinging: The Luck of the Irish (Spaniard)

When “Van” and I got back to the hotel early this morning from the Boardwalk we planned to sit by the pool and relax.

But then a guest at the hotel “Roberto,” a handsome Irish/Spanish guy from the West Coast, came out and struck up a conversation.

To be honest we had been exchanging flirty glances with Roberto since Sunday.

His body is banging with a pierced big dick, nice pecs, arms and abs.

After idly chit chatting for awhile he asked, ” Can i suck your dick?”

I said yes, and it was on and popping on by the poolside on a humid Florida night.

Here are the pics:


Roberto shows off his Prince Albert.


Roberto and Van pose.


Roberto taking on both our dicks.


...and sucking them.


Van jacking on Roberto, who demanded we nutt on his chest.


Our nutt on Roberto.


Nice body.


Beautiful ass.

Florida Swinging: Back to the Boardwalk

Tonight “Van” and I had sushi and caught the film “Avengers: Age of Ultron.”

Then on the way back to the hotel we went to one of our favorite spots here — the gay bar Boardwalk — to have a nightcap and see the dancers.

Our favorite: A Dominican named David. Here’s the pics:


David the Dominican.


David in the bathroom. Sorry for the blur my hand was shaking.


This guy actually moved pretty well.


A little shorty with a big dick.


Nice abs!


A drag light show.

Florida Swinging: Swinging Richards at night, Van for breakfast, a threesome for lunch


On our first night back in Florida my partner “Van,” my friend “Raoul,” and Raoul’s partner and friends visited Swinging Richards.

Blog reader Slim suggested we visit Swinging Richards, an upscale male erotic dancer spot that features full nudity.

Thanks Slim! We had a ball although I wished the venue  featured more men of color.

However there was this black, muscled dancer with a thick dick almost a foot long, a phat chocolate booty and a Colgate smile that more than made our night.

This morning Van and I woke and got to playing. He sat on my face and I ate his ass while I jerked my dick.

Then I fucked Van so long and hard doggy style that he got sore so we stopped.

But at lunch we invited over “Mel,” a bottom dude I had chatted with last year when we were here but never had the opportunity to meet.

Well we really got acquainted with Mel.  Here pics of Van and me tag teaming him.

The first two pics are Van and Mel;  in the third I made Mel eat Van’s ass while  I fucked Mel from behind; and the last three are me doing Mel.







Florida Swinging: A Return to My Favorite Vacation Stomping Grounds

My birthday falls this Memorial Day Weekend and to celebrate “Van” and I are returning to Fort Lauderdale, our favorite gay vacation spot.

This trip should be especially nice because we plan to meet up with “Raoul,” a friend of mine who moved to the Southwest, and his partner.

Like me Raoul was married with kids and by stops and starts transitioned to the gay world. I’m interested in catching up and finding out how the journey has been for him.

And of course Van and I plan to hit the gay and nude beaches, the bars and the restaurants. Plus we are staying at the Grand Palm Plaza, (photo above) a clothing optional hotel.

Ummm, that should be interesting.

Hope to tell you about it. And to read about my previous Florida adventures simply enter Florida Swinging in the search field.

DL Confessions Interview: Adult Entertainer Buster Sly

Buster Sly. Photo courtesy of his website.

Buster Sly. Photo courtesy of his website.

Gay adult entertainer Buster Sly thought he was going to get fired the first time he made a pornographic film.

The EbonyD porn company saw model shots of Buster, were impressed with his good looks, and invited him to Toronto during Gay Pride to shoot sex scenes.

But the lights, camera and unfamiliarity with performing sex on demand made Buster so nervous he had problems keeping an erection.

To make matters worse on the last day of filming he was supposed to take part in a group jackoff scene where all seven actors were supposed to cum at the same time. But another actor played with Buster’s ass and he busted his nutt too soon — off camera.

“They were pissed,” Buster told me. “I just knew they would never hire me again.”

Despite his nervousness fans liked him and demanded the company feature him in more films. So a professional porn actor was born.

Buster, who shot his first scene at age 44 and his now 49, has done work for Forbidden Funk Media, Dirty Dawg Productions, and Alkaline Studios to name a few.

I identify with Sly and like watching him because he looks like men I roll with. He has a clean cut, grown-man look and brings passion to the game.

Still, Buster admits he had problems breaking into black films because producers didn’t think his look was thug enough.

Buster says he is completely open with his sexuality and what he does for a living and appreciates everyone who follows his career, even people who take the time to post snarky comments about his decision to do porn.

“I don’t get the shame — not even close,” he said. “I told my parents before I got into porn what I planned to do. My nieces and nephews know and chat with my fans on my website. My grandmother even knows.”

“I’m grateful for my family and unconditional love really is that,” he said.

Want to learn more about Buster? Visit his website www.bustersly.com, follow him on Twitter @BusterSlyXXX, on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/Sylvester.Buster.Sly or his blog. And check out my favorite Buster Sly clip, this hot Daddy/Son scene with Troy, courtesy of Pornhub.

Buster is visiting Washington, D.C. this week on his way to Europe, where he will continue working to make his web-based fashion and porn business a success.

My boyfriend “Van” and I had planned to hire him for massage but due to scheduling and the fact Van and I were shuttling back and forth between Baltimore and D.C. over the last few days we couldn’t connect.

However I texted Buster tonight and asked whether I could interview him for my blog and to my surprise he agreed. So I talked to him while he ran into a McDonald’s to use the bathroom and order a burger.

Buster was born in Austin, Texas but his father was in the military and the family ended up in North Pole, Alaska, a suburb of Fairbanks. The town’s main attraction is the Santa Claus House but Buster warned me not to go there because it’s a tourist trap.

The Santa Claus House in Buster's hometown of North Pole, Alaska. Photo courtesy of nydailynews.com.

The Santa Claus House in Buster’s hometown of North Pole, Alaska. Photo courtesy of nydailynews.com.

Buster always knew he was gay. One of his earliest pleasurable sexual experiences was playing around with other members of his high school varsity basketball team.

At age 13 he asked his father what homosexuality was and his Dad explained that as long as two people loved each other it didn’t matter what gender they were.

However, Buster’s childhood and teen years were not all so smooth. Starting at age six he was molested by an uncle who was gay. The uncle died when Buster was 18 and Buster got tested for AIDS and discovered he is HIV positive.

“That was his parting gift,” he said of his uncle.

When his family found out about his status a sister wanted Buster to move in with her, her husband and two kids so she could take care of him during what everyone thought would be the little bit of life he had left. She even offered to let him bring his lover with him.

But Buster wanted to live life to the fullest. And surprisingly he stayed healthy long enough to survive until life-saving HIV treatments arrived.

“If I’m going to die I’m going to enjoy life,” he said. “Then to find out 20 plus years later I’m extremely healthy.”

The key to making it in the porn business is to control your own product and brand, Buster explained. Thankfully, online porn offers something for everybody so he has been able to find a niche.

If you like men with salt and pepper hair there is porn that caters to that, he said. If you like bears you can find online scenes that will keep your dick hard. And if you prefer porn where black men top white men or white men top black men all you got to do is Google, Buster said.

So there is definitely a market for mature black men like himself, said Buster, who says gay black men are increasingly breaking out of the stereotypical, homothug porn genre.

Buster has 10 different designers making clothes for him, which he will sell on the web. He has done seven porn scenes but wants to film about 10 more before posting them on his website.

He also does live sex shows and hosts Gay Pride Events, including an upcoming one in Belgium.

I asked him why so many gay porn actors get into drugs and tend to die by suicide. Buster explained the industry is very exploitative, with people who use emotionally or financially vulnerable men.

“It has everything to do with the entertainment industry,” he explained. “You have predators who gravitate to it.”

But Buster, a freewheeling Aquarian who loves to travel, plans to stay in the adult industry.

“I love what I do,” he said. “I love the opportunities that it affords me. Yet I also believe in being a responsible steward. I believe I can win and the people who work with me will win.”

“Anyone who works with me I definitely believe in empowering them and not enslaving them,” he said.