Rules of a Threesome


Morgan and I woke up this chilly morning feeling lazy. Thanksgiving is just two days away so traffic is a bit lighter and offices are already half empty. So why rush in to the work when you have a fine man laying in bed with you?

So I rolled over and kissed his neck while intertwining my legs with his. And then I lay on top of him with my head nuzzled against his shoulder. I could feel the warmth of his penis rubbing against mine,  the hair on his thighs tickling my thighs. My dick started to grow hard.

We talked about what we had to to do today, the errands we had to run, and how our relationship was going. How we were both predominately tops and now that we were together we had learned to give each other ass. Which led  Morgan to ask this question:

“What do you miss being in a relationship with me?”

I didn’t hesitate to answer. “Threesomes.”

“Yeah, it would be nice to get a bottom and just abuse them,” Morgan said, smiling slightly.

“I would like to see you bang out a bottom and I know you would get excited seeing me,” I said. “Remember, that’s how we met.”

Morgan remembered and chuckled. “Look, we are going on a cruise next month. Let’s do a threesome,” he said.

“Okay I will let you pick who it is,” I answered. “You are more picky than I am.”

“But look, I want to set a rule — no kissing,” I said.

“And I don’t want you eating out anybody else’s ass and kissing me later,” Morgan said.

“Cool, I can live with that.”

A San Francisco State University survey of 566 gay male couples that was released this year found about half have sex outside of the relationship and the other partner knows about it (to learn more about the study click here to read a San Francisco Chronicle article.) Some articles about the study said heterosexual couples are learning a secret many gay couples have known for decades — having a threesome or allowing playing on the side can actually invigorate a relationship and help build trust.

However there are risks. Some couples who are in a dying or bad relationship turn to outside sex and threesomes to revive a corpse that is long past resuscitation. Or they could end up forming a too-close attachment to the person bought in to spice up sex.

In fact California social worker Ken Howard, who offers gay marriage therapy, advises clients to have a deep discussion about why they want other partners before they actually sit down and lay down the rules. Is one partner trying to exert his power or will over another by demanding another sex partner? Is the request for a threesome masking some deeper relationship issue that needs to be addressed?

Morgan is seven years older than me and has always lived a gay lifestyle. He explained he would rather have a threesome while we take vacations because Washington, D.C. where we live has a large gay population where everybody knows everyone and everybody gossips. Why let messy people get into our relationship just to bust a nutt?

I agree with him on that. We will see how the vacation threesome goes.

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