One of the most fulfilling things about writing my blog is not sharing my thoughts but interacting with other down-low brothers and helping them work through this issue. I try not to preach. Just listen and let them know everything will be alright.
A guy that I have connected with is “Cold Phoenix,” a married man with kids who like me separated from his wife and is now trying to navigate the turbulent waters that lie between the straight and gay world.
He lives nearby and we have even hung out, shared a meal (he loves Chipotle) and he has met some of the folks featured in my blog.
My writing inspired him and now Cold Phoenix has launched his own blog, “Trapped with Her…Driven to Him.” It is deep, thought-provoking and titillating all at the same time. I encourage you to visit!