Florida Swinging: The Luck of the Irish (Spaniard)

When “Van” and I got back to the hotel early this morning from the Boardwalk we planned to sit by the pool and relax.

But then a guest at the hotel “Roberto,” a handsome Irish/Spanish guy from the West Coast, came out and struck up a conversation.

To be honest we had been exchanging flirty glances with Roberto since Sunday.

His body is banging with a pierced big dick, nice pecs, arms and abs.

After idly chit chatting for awhile he asked, ” Can i suck your dick?”

I said yes, and it was on and popping on by the poolside on a humid Florida night.

Here are the pics:


Roberto shows off his Prince Albert.


Roberto and Van pose.


Roberto taking on both our dicks.


...and sucking them.


Van jacking on Roberto, who demanded we nutt on his chest.


Our nutt on Roberto.


Nice body.


Beautiful ass.

Florida Swinging: Back to the Boardwalk

Tonight “Van” and I had sushi and caught the film “Avengers: Age of Ultron.”

Then on the way back to the hotel we went to one of our favorite spots here — the gay bar Boardwalk — to have a nightcap and see the dancers.

Our favorite: A Dominican named David. Here’s the pics:


David the Dominican.


David in the bathroom. Sorry for the blur my hand was shaking.


This guy actually moved pretty well.


A little shorty with a big dick.


Nice abs!


A drag light show.

Florida Swinging: Swinging Richards at night, Van for breakfast, a threesome for lunch


On our first night back in Florida my partner “Van,” my friend “Raoul,” and Raoul’s partner and friends visited Swinging Richards.

Blog reader Slim suggested we visit Swinging Richards, an upscale male erotic dancer spot that features full nudity.

Thanks Slim! We had a ball although I wished the venue  featured more men of color.

However there was this black, muscled dancer with a thick dick almost a foot long, a phat chocolate booty and a Colgate smile that more than made our night.

This morning Van and I woke and got to playing. He sat on my face and I ate his ass while I jerked my dick.

Then I fucked Van so long and hard doggy style that he got sore so we stopped.

But at lunch we invited over “Mel,” a bottom dude I had chatted with last year when we were here but never had the opportunity to meet.

Well we really got acquainted with Mel.  Here pics of Van and me tag teaming him.

The first two pics are Van and Mel;  in the third I made Mel eat Van’s ass while  I fucked Mel from behind; and the last three are me doing Mel.







Florida Swinging: A Return to My Favorite Vacation Stomping Grounds

My birthday falls this Memorial Day Weekend and to celebrate “Van” and I are returning to Fort Lauderdale, our favorite gay vacation spot.

This trip should be especially nice because we plan to meet up with “Raoul,” a friend of mine who moved to the Southwest, and his partner.

Like me Raoul was married with kids and by stops and starts transitioned to the gay world. I’m interested in catching up and finding out how the journey has been for him.

And of course Van and I plan to hit the gay and nude beaches, the bars and the restaurants. Plus we are staying at the Grand Palm Plaza, (photo above) a clothing optional hotel.

Ummm, that should be interesting.

Hope to tell you about it. And to read about my previous Florida adventures simply enter Florida Swinging in the search field.

DL Confessions Interview: Adult Entertainer Buster Sly

Buster Sly. Photo courtesy of his website.

Buster Sly. Photo courtesy of his website.

Gay adult entertainer Buster Sly thought he was going to get fired the first time he made a pornographic film.

The EbonyD porn company saw model shots of Buster, were impressed with his good looks, and invited him to Toronto during Gay Pride to shoot sex scenes.

But the lights, camera and unfamiliarity with performing sex on demand made Buster so nervous he had problems keeping an erection.

To make matters worse on the last day of filming he was supposed to take part in a group jackoff scene where all seven actors were supposed to cum at the same time. But another actor played with Buster’s ass and he busted his nutt too soon — off camera.

“They were pissed,” Buster told me. “I just knew they would never hire me again.”

Despite his nervousness fans liked him and demanded the company feature him in more films. So a professional porn actor was born.

Buster, who shot his first scene at age 44 and his now 49, has done work for Forbidden Funk Media, Dirty Dawg Productions, and Alkaline Studios to name a few.

I identify with Sly and like watching him because he looks like men I roll with. He has a clean cut, grown-man look and brings passion to the game.

Still, Buster admits he had problems breaking into black films because producers didn’t think his look was thug enough.

Buster says he is completely open with his sexuality and what he does for a living and appreciates everyone who follows his career, even people who take the time to post snarky comments about his decision to do porn.

“I don’t get the shame — not even close,” he said. “I told my parents before I got into porn what I planned to do. My nieces and nephews know and chat with my fans on my website. My grandmother even knows.”

“I’m grateful for my family and unconditional love really is that,” he said.

Want to learn more about Buster? Visit his website www.bustersly.com, follow him on Twitter @BusterSlyXXX, on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/Sylvester.Buster.Sly or his blog. And check out my favorite Buster Sly clip, this hot Daddy/Son scene with Troy, courtesy of Pornhub.

Buster is visiting Washington, D.C. this week on his way to Europe, where he will continue working to make his web-based fashion and porn business a success.

My boyfriend “Van” and I had planned to hire him for massage but due to scheduling and the fact Van and I were shuttling back and forth between Baltimore and D.C. over the last few days we couldn’t connect.

However I texted Buster tonight and asked whether I could interview him for my blog and to my surprise he agreed. So I talked to him while he ran into a McDonald’s to use the bathroom and order a burger.

Buster was born in Austin, Texas but his father was in the military and the family ended up in North Pole, Alaska, a suburb of Fairbanks. The town’s main attraction is the Santa Claus House but Buster warned me not to go there because it’s a tourist trap.

The Santa Claus House in Buster's hometown of North Pole, Alaska. Photo courtesy of nydailynews.com.

The Santa Claus House in Buster’s hometown of North Pole, Alaska. Photo courtesy of nydailynews.com.

Buster always knew he was gay. One of his earliest pleasurable sexual experiences was playing around with other members of his high school varsity basketball team.

At age 13 he asked his father what homosexuality was and his Dad explained that as long as two people loved each other it didn’t matter what gender they were.

However, Buster’s childhood and teen years were not all so smooth. Starting at age six he was molested by an uncle who was gay. The uncle died when Buster was 18 and Buster got tested for AIDS and discovered he is HIV positive.

“That was his parting gift,” he said of his uncle.

When his family found out about his status a sister wanted Buster to move in with her, her husband and two kids so she could take care of him during what everyone thought would be the little bit of life he had left. She even offered to let him bring his lover with him.

But Buster wanted to live life to the fullest. And surprisingly he stayed healthy long enough to survive until life-saving HIV treatments arrived.

“If I’m going to die I’m going to enjoy life,” he said. “Then to find out 20 plus years later I’m extremely healthy.”

The key to making it in the porn business is to control your own product and brand, Buster explained. Thankfully, online porn offers something for everybody so he has been able to find a niche.

If you like men with salt and pepper hair there is porn that caters to that, he said. If you like bears you can find online scenes that will keep your dick hard. And if you prefer porn where black men top white men or white men top black men all you got to do is Google, Buster said.

So there is definitely a market for mature black men like himself, said Buster, who says gay black men are increasingly breaking out of the stereotypical, homothug porn genre.

Buster has 10 different designers making clothes for him, which he will sell on the web. He has done seven porn scenes but wants to film about 10 more before posting them on his website.

He also does live sex shows and hosts Gay Pride Events, including an upcoming one in Belgium.

I asked him why so many gay porn actors get into drugs and tend to die by suicide. Buster explained the industry is very exploitative, with people who use emotionally or financially vulnerable men.

“It has everything to do with the entertainment industry,” he explained. “You have predators who gravitate to it.”

But Buster, a freewheeling Aquarian who loves to travel, plans to stay in the adult industry.

“I love what I do,” he said. “I love the opportunities that it affords me. Yet I also believe in being a responsible steward. I believe I can win and the people who work with me will win.”

“Anyone who works with me I definitely believe in empowering them and not enslaving them,” he said.




Catching the Straight Boys

My friend "Everett" loves sucking dick in public, particularly straight males, just like the guy in a scene from this Pornhub video (http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=525038635).

My friend “Everett” loves sucking dick in public, particularly the dicks of straight males, kinda like in this scene from a Pornhub video (http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=525038635).

My friend “Everett” holds a medical degree, regularly lectures at colleges in Washington, D.C. and Maryland and lives in a large row house in one of D.C.’s up-and-coming Northwest neighborhoods.

But he has a sexual fetish that takes him to places very different from his day job in academia. He likes to suck straight boy dick.

And this is how he does it.

Everett will go for long walks at night, sometimes in neighborhoods not as nice as his own. And sometimes another black man will walk by and greet him.

“Nice night, ain’t it man,” the stranger may ask.

And Everett will answer, “Yeah, it’s a nice night but it would be better if I was sucking some dick.”

According to Everett, half the time this will lead to a conversation which will lead to him slipping into an alley with the guy, getting on his knees, and deep throating that dick until the guy busts a load. A load that Everett doesn’t let go to waste because he loves to eat creamy nutt.

“Immanuel, you would be surprised how many straight men  appreciate a good dick sucking,” he said. “They just want to get a good, quick nutt and go home.”

“Well, are they really straight,” I ask.

“Immanuel, men just like sex,” Everett answers. “The only difference is straight men have to pay prostitutes for freaky sex gay men do all the time.”

Some of these men will tell Everett they don’t have a gay bone in their body and don’t even look at men that way but appreciate a good slobber down or tight male ass. Others will say they have a wife or girlfriend at home who doesn’t give head or anal sex so they get it on the outside.

Yet others will say they served time in jail or prison and got good sex from men there, so why not when they get out, even if they have a wife or girlfriend on the outside?

Everett picks his targets carefully and follows certain rules. No. 1: He never approaches groups of guys because he doesn’t want to get beat up by a gang of homophobes. No. 2: He checks to make sure the man doesn’t have a weapon or looks like he would rob him.

And No. 3: If the man answers, “Yes, I will let you suck my dick if you pay me $20″ Everett will keep moving. Because he knows a few blocks away he will find somebody who gives up dick for free.

You would be surprised how many straight men  appreciate a good dick sucking. They just want to get a good, quick nutt and go home.

One time Everett caught the bus late at night and saw an attractive brother with glasses. He looked like a dark-skinned version of Malcolm X — nice fade cut, nerdy but sexy, and square jawed. Everett couldn’t stop staring at him and sometimes the man stared back.

When the man got off the bus Everett followed him. You don’t have to guess what happened. Everett ended up sucking his dick in a dark park.

“His dick was huge and black,” Everett said. “I could barely get that thing in my mouth but it worked out and I got that nutt.”

“He gave me his phone number, but explained he was often at his girl’s house so I couldn’t call often.”

“We ended up hooking up for quite awhile but that all ended real quick when he started asking me for money.”

Photo courtesy of memegenerator.net.

Photo courtesy of memegenerator.net.

You see, the Malcolm X look-alike broke Everett’s rule No. 3.

Everett can rattle off places where he catches straight men: Druid Hill Park in Baltimore, the lower level men’s room at Union Station in Washington, D.C., Malcolm X Park in D.C., Martin Luther King Library in downtown, D.C., the park by the Canadian Embassy in D.C., and the Big Top Video store in downtown Baltimore.

Everett, who is a middle aged, tall, handsome brown-skinned man, also bemoans the fact that many of the X-rated video booth places in New York City, D.C., Baltimore and other places have closed as urban areas have become more gentrified.

His favorite place to get straight men was the Gayety Show World bookstore on “The Block,” Baltimore’s infamous red light district. The bookstore burned down in 2010.

“When I found out it had burned down I cried,” Everett said.

The Religious Right

Bishop Oliver Clyde Allen, right, is probably one of the most recognized openly gay black male ministers in the United States. Here he is with his husband Rashad Burgess and adopted daughter LaTanya. The couple even made Ebony Magazine's list of the 10 Coolest Families in America. Photo courtesy of The Examiner.

Bishop Oliver Clyde Allen, right, is probably one of the most recognized openly gay black ministers in the United States. Here he is with his husband Rashad Burgess and adopted daughter LaTanya. The couple even made Ebony Magazine’s list of the 10 Coolest Families in America. Photo courtesy of The Examiner.

“Brunson” is a deacon, sometimes preacher and choir singer at his church.

He is masculine enough with a burly build and a well coiffed beard but if you look closely enough there is no mistaking he is gay.

Brunson’s outfits are too well put together — what straight man other than TV commentator Roland Martin wears an ascot?. The scent of cologne follows wherever he walks. And at 35 he has never had kids or even brought a girlfriend to church.

“So why not come out to members of your congregation,” I ask.

“No way. My private life is my business.”

“But if more black clergy members came out wouldn’t that help ease homophobia in the black community and especially black churches?”

“My church is too conservative,” answered Branson, not even bothering to entertain the thought.

I’ve fucked many people in the church. At least three ministers and a chart-topping gospel artist.

And it has never ceased to amaze me how, despite the fact they advocate God’s love from the pulpit or choir, they can be the folks most against love for LGBT people.

The cognitive dissonance is jarring.

I know one minister who says preaching hard on Sunday makes him especially horny. So on Monday you can often find him at a bathhouse getting his hole dug out by any hard dick he can find.

But would he ever come out to his flock. “It’s none of their business,” he says, sounding alot like Brunson.

I think one of the biggest reasons for these ecclesiastical closet cases is money. Several ministers I know in Baltimore, including one who is married to a woman and plays with men, are pulling in big money.

One drives a late model Mercedes and oversees multi-million-dollar church community projects.

The second uses love offerings from his congregation to go on shopping sprees in Washington D.C.’s tony Georgetown enclave. His closet is filled with designer clothes, many with the tags still on.

Yet when you ask him why he doesn’t challenge homophobia in his conservative congregation he says with a straight face that he has a theological degree and has studied the Bible for years and can find nothing in the Bible that justifies homosexuality.

Yet just a month or so ago he was bugging my partner “Van” and I to come over and threesome with him on a Saturday afternoon before he had to write his Sunday sermon.

I go to a Presbyterian Church that is accepting of LGBT people. Van is frequent guest and folks have been nothing but welcoming.

But my congregation is mostly white.

Sometimes I wonder whether homophobia in the black community would ease if all these gay black men in church took a stand and stopped hiding behind the cross.

Because Jesus sacrificed his life for them. Is it too much for them to sacrifice some of their comfort for their gay brothers?